Saturday, April 16, 2011

In response to Julia's question "Do you find people more attractive because of their looks or their personalities upon first impression? Most people make an initial impression of someone based on their looks. Do you agree or disagree with this? Why are looks, and not other qualities such as intelligence and compassion, most highly valued in our society?"

Although it is sad to say, for first impressions, looks tend to be more important than personality. Society is obsessed with appearances. Case in point my favorite series"What Not to Wear". For those not familiar with the show, two style experts spend an entire week fixing a fashion train wreck. During almost every episode, the person who is having their wardrobe overhauled says something to the extent that appearances should not matter. The style experts quickly get the subject to realize that in order to play the part one must look the part. A lot of the people on the show are up and coming professionals, and their attire is preventing them from being taking seriously. They soon learn that although it might be superficial, appearances play an important part in society.

While looks are important, they can only take people so far. People also need vibrant personalities to take themselves to the next level. I know of people who on first impression were extremely attractive, but the more I got to know them and recognize their personalities, the less time I wanted to hang out with them. Beautiful people can turn ugly if their beauty is only skin deep.

Q: What is your opinion of plastic surgery? Is it a result of society's obsession with youth and beauty or is it more personal?

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